Most of us have some nostalgic memories of Christmas past. When I was young, we used to go to the local candy store around Christmas time and I would get to pick out some penny candy from under the big glass display case. Sometimes I would come home with some chocolate covered peanut butter logs (which you can’t get any longer, by the way). Another memory is when we would put up the Christmas tree as a family, we would be told the stories behind each ornament (where it came from, what it represents, who made it, and who it was given to). There are many other memories of Christmas that come back at this time of year. I didn’t always recognize it at the time, but these experiences were being recorded in my young heart in a way that would give me warmth, joy, and happiness to ponder for many years down the road. I think that is what makes Christmas such a special time for families and children. Chirstmas nostalgia is not found just in getting presents, participating in Christmas programs, or getting wrapped up in the hustle-bustle of the season. The wonder of Christmas is the opportunity to instill a sense of nostalgic “merry”-ness in young hearts that they can feast upon throughout life.

We need these times of joy, love and caring in our lives. The Bible tells us that we live in difficult and evil days and anyone with open eyes can confirm that is true. Our society is consumed with vices and woes of every kind. As we grow older, we are sure to face trials, temptations, loss and heartbreak. Yet these challenges we face were known by the author of Proverbs when he wrote, “All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast” (Proverbs 15:15). In other words, those that live in a constant state of affliction, without hope, without joy, and perhaps even without memories of those times when life was good are going to perceive only evil throughout their life. When we have a merry heart, our perspective changes and we will have a “continual feast”.

Now I’m not saying that the cure for all of the evil in this world is to just “laugh it off” or ignore it. Neither will any amount of Christmas merry-making make up for the deep loss, grief and pain that some people feel this time of year. The only true source of hope, joy, and peace is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the strength we draw on through trials. He is the only one who promises ultimate victory over the ill-will of the world around us. However, the Proverb tells us that there is also wisdom in keeping a “merry heart” to draw upon within. Given this, let me challenge you with a couple ways to help yourself and others work toward this goal.

First, take the time to dwell on those nostalgic good times and memories of Christmas past. You may not be feeling very “merry” this Christmas season. That doesn’t mean you have to become one of the “afflicted”. Things may not be like they used to be (reality check: they never will be!). But that doesn’t mean you should set aside the memories that fill your heart with joy.

Second, take the time to make meaningful and thoughtful Christmas memories with your children, your spouse, and your family. These can be simple, inexpensive traditions. Watch a favorite Christmas movie. Bake some cookies for a shut-in. Take a tour of the Christmas lights. Remember, the best gift you can give to others is your investment of time and togetherness with them. Maybe they won’t recognize it today, but you will be creating memories with them that they can draw upon in later years to help make their hearts “merry”.

Christmas memories are important. Cherish the memories of your past and create new ones in your present. They will give you things to dwell upon when you are feeling “afflicted”. And remember, when you know Christ as Savior, you have the greatest reason to have a “merry” heart – and that will be a “continual feast”!